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Originally Posted by bodyslam
Most mongers don't go thru a physical paid guide, they don't see the value whether regularly or occasionally visiting a particular city. Most mongers will want to go out with friends or thru internet friends, example samster meeting another samster. Yes it is cheapskate, free and maybe an expense of a meal and a drink but who is right to say all these are wrong?
In an open forum, when others need help or want to join an outing, if you are not going to provide it for free, just ignore him. By ignoring him, will it hurts you? Maybe I misunderstood all your postings but this is not an interest for me to go on debating whether is it good, beneficial to pay a "guide". Further, in this forum, read most of postings, your favorite past time was to argue and never back down. Continue with what you believe in your "justice", not many people have the time and effort to keep on arguing.
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your post makes it sound as if i personally pm and contact guys offering my service and then attack them if they not interested...i have never contacted anyone, if anything its guys who constantly pm asking me to meet them or to "share" and when i say do they have anything to share in exchange back or are they willing to take my services as a guide etc etc, when they reply that im being unbrotherly etc etc and how its this and that...thats the only time i talk abt "justice", and its more as away to justify that im not gonna waste my time in a activity that is in most cases detrimental to my interests.
Further i have never promoted the idea of using a guide is better or worse, what i am saying is that its quite unreasonable to expect people to be a guide when tehre is very little benefit to themselves, maybe these newbies should learn how sell themselves better...finally maybe there is nothing wrong in trying to get something for nothing, in my mind its quite direspectful, its like going to a cat 100 house then say to girl ill offer you 20, but anyway thats my own feelings, BUT there definately is something wronge when u pm me asking something for mthing then getting defensive or abusive when i refuse your requests.
In my mind when i dont know somebody and they pm me asking if i can show them around reveal all my secret places and they offering a beer, well thats about the same as when guys meet girls in ktv they get the number then next day they get requests for money for dead buffullo, mother sick etc, dont tell me guys dont get annoyed by that kind of behaviour?