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Originally Posted by genji81
I do get what you mean , i know sex isn't everything in a marriage too ..
But does that mean having sex once a month is fine and i should just go ahead and marry her ?
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I can't make a decision on your behalf. You have to weigh the pros and cons and decide for yourself.
However, I can tell you straight that females in general are genetically programmed to be as horny as hell before they procreate.
However, once they've had a couple of kids, their brain triggers a release of "maternal" hormones so that nurturing of children now takes precedence over procreation which is what this thread is all about.
However, wives who are kind and caring and who care for their husbands understand that men still have sexual needs so they'll oblige by providing sex even though they don't crave for it anymore. On the other hand, the selfish ones think only of themselves and leave their men high and dry.
Once women reach menopause, hormone levels plunge and sex is the last thing on their minds. In fact, they can't even wet themselves anymore.
This is all part and parcel of the biological clock. There is no escaping the passage of time.
If your girl is not interested in sex now, I doubt very much if it will get any better as time goes by. It will probably get a lot worse so if you truly love her and want to marry her, you should get yourself another outlet for your sexual needs at the same time. I suggest a legal Geylang broad as they are the safest option.