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Originally Posted by soggypanties
Perhaps insecurity plays a part? The idea of "if i fuck you/let you fuck enough" then theres no need to fuck around outside? Then the next question will be "is there a desire for me in the 1st place?"
Every individual is different. I relieve stress by sexual release. She'll lose the mood to be intimate and would rather not be touched. Right now I'm working on arresting the stress bug for her even before it affects her. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesnt.... All for the sake of having a release. I must add that I didn't need to work for it in the past. So to me this is a form of downhill which sometimes can be a demoralising thought.  |
agree, sometimes we need to take away her restrictions so that both the couple can enjoy sex. otherwise each time when u failed, u feel like getting it done somewhere with someone else..
there's a pent up build up of desire to be released.
but generally i think a nice evening towards the weekend, gift, dinner etc, sets the mood for it, esp so if she's a working person