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Originally Posted by zomgbaby
Both my spouse and I are in our late 20s. Sex life is almost non existent since marriage almost two years ago. Same 101 reasons some bros mentioned.
No mood
Very tired but can end up watching drama
Technically no difference from having Code Red throughout the entire year. Last session was many weeks ago. Cousin shared her preggy news and she got "competitive". The saga lasted for only a few days.
Regret? Yes, definitely.
Actions? Tried to talk to her the importance of sex in marriage but always brushed aside. Recommended marriage counseling got rejected.
FL/Paid sex
Not yet although the thought has crossed my mind numerous times. Maybe when the day I can no longer tolerate the need of PCC when I'm already married.
I'm emotionally hurt and always wonder what have I done to deserve this kind of treatment. Sigh.
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I'm no marriage counselor so don't take this too seriously but keep it in mind. By what you have described, I can't sense her affection/attraction for you since she seems so uninterested in sex. If you are currently not having your sexual needs met by your wife, having almost no sex, but somehow, just somehow, have a baby/child with her later, and due to the lack of sex with her again that led you to "eat outside" and cause marriage breakdown or divorce, you will likely end up being ordered to pay child support for some/many years.
My main point is, your financial disaster is likely much greater after you father a child with her than before you become a father. If you want to free yourself from an unhappy or sexless marriage, do it before your children are even conceived.