[Serenade]

I am close to a very attractive married MILF, in a platonic friendship for decades. She is happily married and a mother to a pair of boys. I envy her husband for having such a pretty and capable wife who looks way younger than her chronological age. We are very open in our conversations.

She admitted that all her life, she never had any libido and sex was a marriage obligation and a chore. Never once had she ever initiated sex, given a BJ or enjoyed sex with husband. As far as she is concerned, she can live happily without sex. When her husband wants sex, she lets him have his way by lying there and hoping to get it over and done with fast within 5 mins so that she can go back to sleep.

Funnily, she admits to being wet all the time down below even though never aroused. I asked to feel/see and she obliged by opening her legs and pulling her panties down. In between her fair smooth legs was a thick bush with curly hair. I pulled her nether lips apart to see a pink pussy glistening wet. She was very wet and slippery as she said. I stroked her and she orgasmed after 10 minutes. Then said it felt very nice, but has no need for orgasms. Does not even masturbate in life.

My point here s that there are ladies who are naturally of low libido and happy to go through life with no need for sex, but give out of obligation.

I know another local MILF who is capable, smart, pretty and has a great body. She loves and wants sex, but her husband does not give her any. She adores him greatly and will never cheat on him, but is frustrated to the core. The do not have children so cannot blame child stress. Even on their vacations when there is no stress, they do not have sex and have not had for decades. Her initiations do not get anywhere with her husband. She thinks he is a closet gay. This MILF she is now a staunch Christian and so will not play around. But has admitted to me her previously satisfactory sexcapades. For her now, staying with a husband who loves her and who provides for her and her family financially is reason enough to stay faithful.

My point in this case is that local ladies have different make-ups and different needs when it comes to sex in marriage. For them sex is a small part in an otherwise happy marriage.