since you said no offence...let me say what I said and please dun feel offended...
as posted by you we met twice...twice I invited you to my group of frens and also dinner over the last couple years....you are ungrateful person...you are trouble maker and like to stir up shit problem....reason why I no longer contact you....no offence right becos I dare write openly...
Sinkie land is different from many other countries like Vietnam, Cambodia, etc...here our rich gahmen can take care of the under-privileged...and our little donations here meant nothing to most charity organisations...I hated to donate to greedy org such as NKF, Ren Ci, etc whereby recent Charity scandal had hit hard on the donors...
if you dun know, I am similar like you...I love Vietnam and Vietnam is also home to me...I organised all the Charity donations here and you are telling me I did wrong thing by doing such things...hope you eat your words...doing something good here and you took it negatively...think my frens and I are better than you...we can say loudly we helped the ppl in Vietnam...in fact in D8 where we frequent, the residents in D8 knew us and knew we did good deeds by helping the poor needy there...we shall continue to help as much as we can...luckily i have a group of frens who trusted me and saw their little donations helped hundreds and thousands of ppl here in Vietnam...
helping your gf/bx family is not doing charity....that to me is a commitment...so dun mixed up Charity and helping family members...&&
the above is my 2 cents worth...not to anger anyone...^^