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Originally Posted by naemlo

It depends on whether u have time and effort to find and select the so called right one. If u have then visit VN regularly and get your friend to intro.

It is tiring but to some it is fun, to spend the time and effort to go after a ger, stay together for a year or 2 then find it not suitable and repeat the process again.

If u are pressured to get marry, dun have time, can't regularly visit VN and no friend to intro then agent match make might be for u.

Marriage is a gamble... what seem good might not down the road. Most ppl are blindly in love when started but after marriage, staying together for long, the "freshness" is gone, every horn is out... This is the time for the couple to give and take and most important responsibility.

From the forum, the major issue with foreign wives esp those from the poor is money.... so be mentally prepared.

BTW why VN ger???

No choice left...local and malaysian girls too chossy...needs time to sian them and not easy to please.Moreover social circle getting very small to know them ,