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Originally Posted by Kim91
Bro mackewell, congrats on finding back ur lost love!
U two definitely got some fate but what kind of destiny it lead to only time will tell. Real love or not also time will tell; so just enjoy with some cautions.
I'm no expert but U shd be prepared this is going to be a long winding journey with unforseen. Lots of Gut, patience, determination, understanding from both is required. Not to mention $$$$
P/s: u may want to find out why she disappeared n now earning in JB.
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Bro, actually she did not disappear, she relocated from jc and gl and went to ktv in singapore to work and then sometimes go jb work sideline to get little more income. I could not find her i guess as her friends also left with her. I have alot of question to ask her but i think i will ask her slowly as i know her better. I don't want to rush into all this questions and start overthinking towards the negative side and start making ridiculous deductions on her situation.
I done that once, i bailed from her and i regretted. She is a working girl lah i know but i want to give her time to show that she loves me from the bottom of her heart and i also prove my love to her too. i dun want to jump the gun also. I shall see how it goes, it can be a year or two or even five years, i dun care.
However, i understand girls cant wait when the 'time' is right, if she really think a financially richer guy in vietnam or singapore or anywhere else in the world can be the one to give her a blissful life now, i cant really stop her and i wont do that coz i am not capable of giving her a better life for the next 5 years i suppose. Of course i want her to be in my life but i shall communicate and work things out with her and see how.
I am serious about her but lets be realistic, i want to see if things can work out between me and her anot. I want to know more about her and how i can help her slowly(Last year when i know her, i don't aid her financially but now i am starting to help her financially slowly based on my allocated budget which is damn reasonable.). I got nothing to lose, i am taking away the negative voices out there from my head becuz i have faith in myself and her now. period.
PS: i cannot be hasty and anxious on the communications part. Bro Kangtuo i believe placed tons and tons of faith on his beloved gf and took a good period of time to break the communication 'barrier' as she was not in singapore to see him most of the time. Its not blind faith. Its called being understanding and being patient. I need to do this, give it some time, and cannot give up, keep believing until i lose my gf completely if she feels she is more blissful without me in her life for good.... Don't be stereotypical and too emotional at all times i would say, sometimes calm down and being rational is good too i suppose....