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Old 22-09-2014, 11:31 AM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88 View Post
not stereotyping her hor...IMHO..only reason dun talk is not her siblings...but her lover bf...sure she dun wan talk to you while making merries with him la...this one ask our bro MIFAcafe...he experienced it himself...while he was having a WL from ktv in hcm in his room bonking..her Taiwanese bf called and called...all she said is no reception and 3G very weak so cannot video call...haha...dun think you trust us la...reason simple no advice can go into your big head...

my famous quote "If you trust a WL then pigs can climb trees..."
Bro H88, ur quote is a stereotype already. Every bro here are entitled to their opinions here and i respect that. However, So now should i act like a stereotypical stinkaporean who just listen to ppl thoughts and act on them even thought i have yet to analyse it and think outside of the box also and it is actually not what i envision and not what i want to act on?

My answer is no, And so being untypical and sticking to my faith is a taboo? No, i am never a singaporean besides birth, i think different i act different i question why people just do things the way it is. This is my personality, do i have to say sorry to people who is outside of my life circle for being me? NO, as long my conscience and my ethics are right, i dont see why i cant decide on how i run my life....

And also why do u keep associating marriage with viet girls? unless my gf pressure me to get married, then i worry about it. IF not, y must i marry and lead a normal life even thought i am not looking for such life? y the cert will determine whether i am happy or not? Why must i like baby? i dont for goodness sake, and is it a massive crime to not be myself, i dont like baby and marriage. OH ppl now will say, u just want play play, u no marry and baby u player. Then ppl get marry and got baby and still cheat and fuck around is serious ppl, is doing the right thing ah? LOL....

Bottomline is ppl can keep sticking words into how i think and u wont know how i think and i dun actually bother how ppl say or think coz of the stupid chinese 'face' factor or 'ego' crap. I cant stop ppl from saying what they say but i do know i just want to be with my gf and takecare of her and help her to a small extent and be honest and truthful to her and not fuck fuck fuck behind her back and say i love her in front wtf....(i hope love can be eternity but is it entirely up to me to control or determine how long this r/s will be? no).

Until she tells me sayonara, or i caught her cheating on me, or dont want tell me things, or we lose that 'feel' , then i will let her go. She can find someone better or richer, i can find another girl in my life. Whats with all the TABOO and the life and death BS i am getting?(oh u cannot do this, oh u cannot do that, ppl will talk blah blah blah....) my r/s is between me and my gf. I love to listen to different opinions about viet girls and their culture in this forum, but i will not jump the gun until i hear the truth from her....

Why on earth i am a sinner for being myself and say no to your opinions? And why the hell this has something to do with my ego for not giving up on this r/s? Why do i need to overanalyse things and make it so difficult for myself when its actually quite simple and straightforward?

Keep posting your thoughts but you are not always right. I am also not always right, but do i really need to be an American who has that amendment right to have the freedom to pursue how i want to lead my r/s without digging the stereotypes from ppl who are so afraid to think outside of the box becuz they are plagued with taboos and no-no's in this small island?

I am sorry but i dont need all this, just keep posting how you feel and i will still post how i feel, period, learn from each other man, why say i stubborn cock or wrong when i am the odd man out here? LOL come on man, open stomach abit more, be more magnimous and take things as it is.....

PS: i am not pissed off , i just want to be myself, i will continue to be myself , be out of the box, because i want the genuine me to express things in my genuine way cheers...i still listen to things from you seniors ok but i stick to my faith, i am not a dumbass or noob lol... nothing against anyone, just have to let it out and make myself feel better....