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Originally Posted by curious76
(1) She supposed to use my money to buy an laptop. Now she want to quit her job in the bar and start an online clothing store. And her school result is no good.
(3) I use the above translation confronted her.. I told her I am going drinking but she say she also go drinking with her friend and pissed off..
I really do not know what to do.. Please advise bro..
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Bro Curious76, this is because she ask and you give, therefore she take it for granted. Furthermore she knew your interest in her so she feel that you have the obligation. You become her money tree already. Once you don't perform to her expectation this will happen.
There is only two things that will happen which is, she come to her sense and change (this is not going to happen in the next 5 years at least) or she go look for someone else quietly to top up what she is missing, (you know what I mean), if you don't mind her going out with another man, then both of you may share the load and the stress but definitely when that happen she can only be a mistress to you.
If you are not ready to make any concrete decision, better to tell her you expectation, what you can give and to what limit. Never exceed what you can earn. If you were to continue assuming you can go marathon and have a relative deep pocket and can go the next 10 years with her, I guess it will be a very stressful and painful path. Maybe when she come to the age of 40 she will quiet down.
This is only my personal opinion.