We all know that getting married is a milestone in life, to you was it the best or worst decision you have ever made?
I am asking this as I have seen guys (married for more than 10yrs or so) who are married but not happily married, I know of one whom is married for 20yrs & have regular FLs/FBs outside of his marriage (He was initially faithful in his marriage, what tiggered him to start "outsourcing" was becoze he was angry with his wife). And the list goes on..as what I have noticed on other married men.
The men that I know stayed married for the fact of not getting into financial burden (alimony to ex-wife, splitting of house proceeds), children (not wanting them to grow up in broken families), society ostracisation & etc. Not the fact that they really love the woman whom they married & want to spend the rest of their life with her in sickness & in health....also staying faithful thru out the marriage as well.
It makes me wonder at times...am I mixing with the wrong group of people OR it is a natural process in life tat when you are married for long (more than 10 years)...you are staying married NOT for love but rather because of obligations (no choice, boh bian
)..??
For those whom are married for more than 10yrs, if you could turn back time...would you have choosen the same woman?
