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Originally Posted by youre
It only broke into a zillion pieces when I found out he's been lying to me as well. I don't think he cheated in the sense he made love to someone else, but the betrayal felt like it. A knife stabbed in your back is still a knife stabbed in your back.
Do men just grow up with time? Or does maturity whether natural or forced not apply to the male species.
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TS, I think you should have a heart-to-heart talk with your husband about your expectations of your marriage, and find out about his expectations as well. Try not to be aggressive and avoid saying stuff like "Why you don't care about my feelings?" I believe that both parties need to change for the marriage to work. Instead of waiting for your husband to change, maybe you can change yourself or how you communicate with your husband?
You might want to start working. At least it will provide you with a safety net in case something happens. Marriage without love is hard (but not impossible) to sustain. My childhood was complicated and I used to blame myself for my parents' separation. Hopefully your child would have happy and healthy childhood memories.
Care to elaborate on what your husband has been lying about?
Article for you, to provide a different perspective. I read it a while back and it seems like the original has been taken down. Might/might not be relevant to you.
http://www.collective-evolution.com/...owerful-story/