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Originally Posted by SleepyPanda
I know i'm still lacking in many aspects so will definitely try to up my shortcomings. i've always been a person with low self esteem so will appreciate if the seniors here can give me more pointers and advice on how to be a MAN.
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First thing first, you must have the RIGHT mentality and that is NOT to think you can become a ladies' man overnight! If you think in this way, then you are basically like those who hope to get rich quickly in a get rich scheme.
Honestly, the FIRST thing you must do is to self improve yourself! This means let go of that girl no matter how painful you are feeling now, get on with your life by doing things that you have been doing BEFORE you met up with that girl. If you stick to your needy personality, honestly speaking, no matter how many ladies you meet in future, you will always make the same mistakes over and over again. You must work on yourself first before others can appreciate you. Otherwise, you will be popping up over here now and then and ask us back the same questions.