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Originally Posted by Ccsor
Dear AssLover,
You may be right. Fyi i am the one doing the foreplay every single session and he's nvr the type to go into foreplay, none at all haha. So end up during the 10 to 15 mins of sex, i will always end up unsatisfied n feel no connection.
As I am in sales, i met many types of ppl and have a suitors along the way. I have stayed faithful all this while until one man come along recently and I kinda got involved with him (i know i may get reprimanded for this sign). But at times when we are at our weakest, we tends to fall. Thats why i say you are right.
I tell you this is definitely not a good feeling. Cos nobody would expect to have a failed marriage but sometimes its the circumstances that changes us (i am not having any excuses cos i am in the wrong too).
My hubby kinda lost me because i am neglected both emotionally and physically bah.
So my point is two persons must make it a point to communicate and make effort in a marriage no matter how long and how many years. Dun follow in my footsteps.
Wish me all the best in my rocky marriage.
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Hi Ccsor, I can relate to wat u r gg through. Initially I'm puzzled why hubby isn't keen to hv regular sex w me. For past year, I've been hankering after n pressurizing him, he begin to come to me but he can only make it once a week. We've been tog since I was 18 n now I'm in my mid-30 and he's a decade older, so I think, mayb he feels sexing w me is boring. I feel cut-off sexing w him too, as he only takes care of his own needs. I've to do everything for foreplay - BJ, licking even got to do my own self service while he lazily lie there. He doesn't go down on me (said he doesn't like to do it) n rejected my frenching attempts. Recently, I told him I wanna give him a massage n he just said he's not into it. When I told him, I like to parade in lingerie for his viewing, he said he's not into tt as well. However, he likes to watch porn but has recently totally stopped due to my pressurizing. I told him I can always dress up n be his porn gal or game for anything he fantasise if it's within my natural means. He merely responded he is unadventurous in sex.
So it's just BJ and then he will lick me abit and then can't wait to penetrate. Is decades old sex relegated to such unconnected sex? He finds it okie but this kinda sex doesn't satisfy me. Is he behaving normal in decades old relationship or is he abnormal or simply not interested in sexing w me? Do u think I can ever get him to change?