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Hwei6969: sorry to hear about your husband. Hope you're happier now too. *hugs*

Sysnster: try but know when to stop.

MrPleaser: nice article. Thanks for sharing.

shimizu: Thanks. Pure water is sweet.

Hugs: what a story. However, it's not uncommon for a woman with a child to accept no money and no visiting from the child's father.

Botakhead: thank you for the clear-headedness.

Anthony62: your points may be terribly valid.

Anyway, Thanks all. This thread may serve well to other women in my predicament.