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Originally Posted by youre
I'm married and have a very cute kid whom I adore very much. I believe I'm a good woman but my husband doesn't realize that nor treasure me. I'm very hurt by all his actions and lack thereof .
I could be happy eating plain rice. But after giving birth, my husband didn't provide the emotional and physical support that was needed from my partner as a new father and husband. That alone saddened me deeply but my heart was not broken. It only broke into a zillion pieces when I found out he's been lying to me as well. I don't think he cheated in the sense he made love to someone else, but the betrayal felt like it. A knife stabbed in your back is still a knife stabbed in your back.
The more you love someone, the more hurt you feel when the trust is broken. I couldn't believe this actually happened to me. He, whom I love so very much could actually bear to hurt me like this.
Any advice? I have tried to tell him and communicate with him, but everytime only gets worse. Should I just continue to be good woman and not voice out to him anymore. It seems the only way for this relationship to continue.
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Guys .. her hubby cheated and make love to someone. Ts is asking if just keep quiet and con't or keep voicing out and con't ... and she believed its the only way .. ts nvr ask or mention to leave him or not.
Ts has answer herself .. so the next step is .. get whatever means to make him pay till the child is big and stable enough and leave him .. in the mean time .. bear wif the family till the time is ripe .. don't ever let him touch u .. least he may brought back from outside and past on his "gift" to u
Or .. just leave him now .. and let fate be ur guiding light.. take care..