Once I sat at a roadside decent café drinking my beer,saw the waitress arrive with a man on a motorbike with 2 young kids on the bike,she alight and he drove off.
Later I chat with her and she told me that one is her husband and her 2 kids.she told me that is her family,she told me her husband don't want go outside work and she no choice have to come out work at night.He rather take care kids at home then go out work.So this show how lazy is Vietnamese man that's why u see so many drinking coffee or beer from the early morning till late doing nothing but chat with friends or waitress while the wife go out work.Then they can go hanky panky outside
Later she told me she not yet eat dinner and whether I can treat her some food?i say ok.Next day went there and request again,i say no more this time.Then she f$$k off
That is their culture,dog eat dog society.