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Originally Posted by Fishie
This is probably strange but I've recently lost the drive for sex with my husband! And the worse thing is that we have just gotten married for a week. We are both relatively young (20s) but I am just so tired of sex with him!
I love sex. I think sex is THE most important pillar in a relationship. However, I've been the "one on top" for longer than I remember! At least 3.5 years to 4? We barely do any other position at all because he likes being lazy. Just like how sex occurs in this manner >> press me down to blow, rub him, either finish with him orally or I want it I will have to climb on top.
I barely remember the last time he actually played with me or sexually aroused me before all that. But we are still having sex at least twice a week. Just that I am getting significantly resistent to sex cause I barely derive anything out of it.
I've tried telling him that I like other positions or that I want more foreplay. Not happening. I've let him eat outside in hopes it'll spice things up and even a threesome. But sigh... We are back to square one.
How? What can I do?
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Maybe change position when he asks you for a bj? Like 69 but he on top? Hey, you are only married for a week! Still have a long long road ahead for both of you. Sexual incompatibility may lead to a weaken marriage. Unfortunately, there is no one solution to your issues cos only both of you can solve it. Good luck!