Sibei heng things I nvr encounter b4.
But sibei suay is to be someone mediator.
Once, meddled & interfered with my colleagues conflict, trying to talk peace, but to no avail, in the end I am TARGETTED by them
People always say
Never be a guarantors for anyone in ur whole life.
And I say
Never try to be a mediator, most of the time will end up become scapegoat for others. U will be screwed up and u will be sibei sibei suay until u need to shower with lime & 7 colours fresh flowers to wash away all your suayness