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Originally Posted by makeyouhappy
So my question for all my brothers and sisters here is.. Is it wrong to not love your parents?
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Hello bro makeyouhappy,
Thank you for starting this thread, I suppose it does take some courage to do so as the general public would frown at your question:
"Is it wrong to not love your parents?"
And to all the brothers and sisters here who have lost their parents, my deepest condolences to you and your family 
If we believe that there are good people out there in the world, you must also believe that there are bad people. If one would think that this world is filled with only good people then you are a naive little kid in a grown up's body. If there are good people, then there are good parents. The flip side of the coin is also true - bad parents exist.
I guess the ultimate question here is, will you have to still love your bad parent(s) unconditionally if they did wrong to you?
For example, your colleagues or university friends could talk about how their virginity was given to a charming young boy in a nice romantic night but you could only keep quiet because your virginity was stolen from you when you were too young and too weak to defend yourself while your father was pumping you hard and all your mum did was watch and pretended nothing ever happened.
Could you still love your parents 
For sure, not everyone will have this chance of being abused, raped, publicly humiliated or murdered by their own parents, but back to the question: "
is it wrong to NOT love your parents"?
How about I ask my own question instead?
"Is it wrong to NOT love your parents after being harmed by them?"