[sammicheng1000]

Originally Posted by obeyyodude

wah i reading all these posts and get scared sia, i think a long long time ago i posted in one of the similar threads about my situation also. i'm not married, but with gf, so if this post is deemed not applicable then please delete. i've been with my gf for 5 years plus liao, i'm only mid 20's, but still haven't seen her fully naked sia, i dunno what's wrong as she can get very horny when making out, however always stop short from removing her panties and attacking i planning to marry her, hoping that she is just being conservative and will have lots of fucking after, but until then i seeing FL at least every week. sadly i got no fb though, i don't really know how to approach it, and singapore being a small world i scared if i try to find fb word will get out

Ask yourself what if ur gf is those no sex type even after marriage? Don't kid yourself, sex is important to you and you know it. It's either ur needs fulfilled or blue balls for the rest of your life. Talk to her, find why sex isn't involved. If it's religion then u suck thumb and take a risk of no return. If it's her then screw her and find another gf. I'm very frank to all my ex before they became my gf. I ask them if sex is off the table then no point being together just to end up me cheating on her for my needs. If they accept then great if they done at worst u won't stuck with sexless life for year while lowering down your dignity like a dog begging for food.