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NO these sites have been around for 3yrs...thiendia has been around for 10+ yrs...you are a USELESS long timer....been here for 10 yrs but dont know much abt the language, very little about the culture, and what little you know abt the sex scene is from leeching off others, so your personal experience as a "long timer" is of little relevance
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Maybe that's true but you have to admit they've only exploded in popularity in the last year or so. (D8 used to struggle to top 100 ads at a given time, now it's what, 800 something?) "Leeching" I think you mean asking questions. You realize not many people consider asking questions to be "leeching". That's a very Tom thing.
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Originally Posted by TomMAffolter
Im sure rachgu diesnt have any real problems with the chit chat etc per se, what he prob has a issue is the hypocrisy...
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I'm pretty sure that is you. It's your mantra. "Hypocrisy". We're all human. Nobody is completely consistent. It's a very common flaw, if it even is a flaw. It is one thing that you really seem to find difficult to accept. It bothers you, a lot I think. (I have some thoughts about this that I'd talk to you offline about, too personal here... if you want... PM) Most people don't feel that way, I think, get as bothered by it. I don't. I honestly haven't figured out what Rachgu's issue is here, so far he just seems like a big ball of negative to me. But maybe in time I'll see the positive side too, the way I can't help but noticing your attributes. But you want me to feel embarrassed about the things I don't know after years here. Well, sorry, I don't. I never had a need to learn SMS slang. Or other stuff I "should have" known.
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guys who one minute post abt the lack of sex related postyings then the next post abt how they so incompetant taht they cant even figure out the sms of a cafe girl....
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This is a view you and Rachgu seem to have in common. You expect that everyone should know certain things. But at the same time you seem against them asking questions to find out so that they can know them, in other words, learning. You are against learning. Or you are against people talking to each other here to find things out. You're against the forum being a place where people can learn. Why? What's wrong with that? Why can't we help each other learn here? I can never figure out what the SMS messages say unless I ask someone what it means. So why not here? Me, I don't get the point of bashing people for being brave enough to ask a humble question. You can't see it, but I do my best to help every guy who PM's me, just letting them know as much as I do, or point them to someone else who does. I even tell some to go ask you sometimes.
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or one guy who boast how he is dating young models, but the next is prob what i have issues are guys who on another forum, abuse singaporeans and sbf samsters for their inane singlish banter...
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no idea who you are talking about in the first part, nor care. Second part you mean me? Some of my favorite people in the world are from Singapore, I have criticized this forum for its tendency to suppress info-sharing, and be far too TCSS dominated. I wrote that here and also over in the other forum. You know that. Deep down, I'm sure you agree with me about that. I basically said this forum sucked, maybe not in those words. It did. Looks like it's improving though. Great spirit on the part of this new generation of members, I never thought I'd see it.
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but now that he has no options to leech from the otehr site he has come back to sbf acting all "friendly"...to continue leeching...
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Hyperbole. Most people don't consider discussing things "leeching". Why's it always have to be so over the top? Leeches, parasites... what next, cockroaches? You get too extreme, man. The guys I've been friendly with, esp in PM, I'm pretty sure they know I'm not acting. My tone here is same as on other forum, just talking the same way I always do.
Gonna bail on the rest of your post if that's ok. Stuff we've been over before, right? But I'll give you this: you are so fucking right about how bad it is me not posting my FR. You noticed my fucked up situation the other day, obviously. I'm gonna go back and meet that one this week (and if not I'll go to Plan B... and if not I'll go to Plan C), and promise you I'll post it as FR. And I'll dedicate it to you, Tom. And your friend Rachgu. Thomas and Friend.
Yeah but.. THAT I am embarrassed about. I definitely should have posted a FR myself by now.
EDIT: Above I said 800 something in D8. Brain fart. Wrong. About 550 currently. D10 is 350. Tan Binh 225. And so on.