[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Most in Vietnam thinks including the gf, foreign guy has money, esp SG. Men ourselves have to be blame because we use money to impress, the ger and family.

From the day, bf n gf, bf will start giving gf small allowance, indirectly, family has extra cash to spend. Bring gf to restaurant, tour, drink coffee bean coffee, buy gift. When they committed as husband n wife, ger family will start to want this n that, n normally husband will give in if it is not expensive. Soon family will start to think of renovation, buying new bike n so on. Nothing wrong with family requesting money as they always think, their capable daughter is smart to marry a rich man.

think what you mentioned is possible that the initial using money to impress...

now problem is his MIL borrowed loan to build house and daughter need to send money monthly for next many years...

wife quarrel with hubby mother and left the house...