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Old 14-01-2016, 07:49 AM
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Re: Vietnam - HCM (Thread 3)

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Originally Posted by TomMAffolter View Post
i wouldnt have waited that long for her to turn around....i give these girls like 5min grace if they arent attentive i would have called to pay the bill...and to be honest before going to these places i would usually make sure i have small change but the best solution is not to give her time to "establish" she was "entertaining" you....but in your crcumstances, that you already described tehre is NOTHING you could have done....at most you could have told her in vietnamese that she has ignored you and thus you wont be tipping her (establishing that you know the system), but id doubt that would have helped...so again the experience is knowing how and WHAT to do before the damage is done and its too late to find a solution.
Well, I guess this is an experience I now have. I did manage to communicate to all the girls (they all came over when I called the lead girl over) that I was not pleased that this girl went outside 3 times to smoke and make phone calls, and was hardly at the table. I said "is this a cafe where customers come to pay 100k for girls to go outside and smoke?" They all were giving each other and the girl looks, knew my complaint was right and the girl was very wrong. But they still wouldn't give me change. So yeah, it seems as if they have a hard rule on that part. Since I chose the girl--they asked me if I wanted her to sit with me and I said yes, and she did come sit with me, I think I was stuck at that point. This one was not nearly hot enough to be acting like this much of a princess. Like a 6.