Foreword:
Started a thread in Matters of the Heart about a consultation at the Emergency department of Institute of Mental Health hours ago. What happened was that my parents and aunt accompanied me and the counter gave me a female psychiatrist whose age was practically a few years younger than mine, probably a few years out from university, so it felt almost entirely like a CPF-and-state-sponsored matchmaking session including elders of mine i.e. my parents and aunt, and seniors of hers i.e. her senior doctors and medics. So they met each other, chatted, and I got to learn about her the psychiatrist while she got to learn about me. I avoided eye contact, which made the encounter even more like a 1970s blind date.
Back to the topic on Sexual Health Issues:
As I am yet married, I have been receiving sensual massages without any unprotected sex, and my last full body checkup many months ago with Tzu Chi Redhill Free Clinic revealed that I was possibly without any major diseases and probably also not infected with any sexually transmitted disease yet.
I do have been properly diagnosed with various hereditary body and mental illnesses though, which are enough to downgrade me, yet if Singaporeans really need that many babies by 2030 I am only excused upper limbs by Mindef. In other words I may be expected as a matter of national and social obligations to keep my lower limbs fit and functional till we people meet our 6.9 quota.
So I volunteer a lot these days like everybody else, including ploughing some soil as a gardener with Community in Bloom project, it keeps the back muscles engaged for heavy chores.
Yet, in as far as I couldn't tell the psychiatrist yesterday, I also don't know how to tell homosexuals that I am not yet interested in them although I am not entirely against their causes and beliefs. Besides, I am not the owner of the 10 month pregnancy if any is eventually needed to happen, what I didn't want to let go off is the idea that unprotected sex is meant to happen after Registry of Marriages, but that blind date with a younger female psychiatrist at IMH Emergency department really was too funny an arrangement for me to consider as the best ingredient for a healthy marriage much lesser a safe pregnancy.
The girl i.e. her admin staff at the IMH Emergency counter that turned me on - she was already wearing a couple ring band on her fourth finger - so a few questions:
1. Mentally, I am still looking at monogamy especially here at SBF, must I see a doctor again at Woodlands Polyclinic because I believe in monogamy?
2. There is also a cute, younger, female Malaysian-ish doctor at Woodlands Polyclinic whom I have already consulted once, she looks single or yet married, must I see her again because I am starting to cough and sneeze since coming back from Thailand two weeks back.
3. Because the Thai monks expect celibacy and veganism if possible to further my buddhist practice, how do I juggle this in Singapore when I also have to look after my own sexual health since our government seems so short of babies?
4. When I eat meats I want to jerk off, how do I save my seminal fluids professionally till I am married?
5. Just as some donate blood to find out if they have HIV, can I donate semen to find out if my semen are of decent quality for future reproduction?
6. I have already opted-in with National Organ Transplant Unit i.e. see
https://www.liveon.sg to donate my corpse anytime that I die, for a full body donation in the context of educational dissection of my corpse, can somebody else pick up this thread and just make more babies if you already have some success cases with your marital partner because if I am trying to find a wife here at SBF every FL looks the same.