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ts, did u use your heart to know a person or with your eyes? i'm just curious what exactly is emotional conversation to you? emotional and intelligence conversation. what is that to you? how do u define that? is holding hands means it is emotional? i believe everyone will respond, once they feel you are not faking, once they feel you are sincere. i am just suspecting that when you held his hand and found him not responding until you get angry, he was actually responding. he was responding in his own way. but you dont understand it. do you agree that he is different from you? do you agree that since he is different from you, he has his own way of responding? you said he is hardworking. but you find him not clever enough. are you regretting now? do you think he can feel your regrets? do you think he is responding to your regrets emotionally but you just didnt notice his despair? do you believe that he actually loves you but because he loves you, your regret is hurting him and he choose to withdraw into his shell whenever you hold his hand? in case you hurt him even more when you try to come close to his heart? look from his point of view sometimes. anyway is just my 2 cents opinion. dont listen to me if you find me totally wrong k? i apologise to you in advance if i said something wrong.

now having said that, every woman knows that most men are dumb in the 'feeling' dept right? so perhaps you need to communicate with him? let him know that he can learn how to make emotional connection with you? and how he can tickle your emotion in the way you like? but dont be a drama queen. not like that.