[semens88]

Everyone has strengths and weaknesses. You say his strength is driving, why not ask him sign up uber and if he is hardworking, uber can make good money if he do night shift. His strength is in the "doing" not the "thinking", so when u agreed to marry him, did u think about his strength? You also say Sex is good with him so he must be doing something right. Intellectual conversations, you can get it here or from friends or coworkers. You want him to be clever but having 2 leaders in the household may not work, it's like having 2 heads constantly arguing about which plan is better. It's your role now to do the thinking and pushing for him and him to do the "doing" unless he does not want to even do the doing, in which case then it is his problem. Also don't expect him to be cleverer because intellect and mental motivation need to be cultivated from a young age and once this period of cultivation is over, it is very hard to expect it when one is older. Try to Lower your expectations on him and instead focus oh leveraging his strengths to earn more money.