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Originally Posted by TomMAffolter
apples and oranges
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Just moving this issue to this thread, it's nothing to do with Tieng Viet.
Yeah you said I'm comparing apples and oranges. My point was that you oppose sharing locations in the thread, but are very much in favor of guys sharing which exact girls they went with along with their FR describing how it was with her.
Looked at from one perspective. Both of these are just necessary pieces of information to get to go have a meeting with a cute girl, or even a particular cute girl. If one wants to meet a girl, he needs to know where to go (address) and identity of the girl (name). He needs both. So the apple and orange are similar in one way in that they're both just 2 different but necessary pieces of info.
Me, I'm more interested in location. If I know where to go, I can handle making my own choice out of the lineup there, and accept the risk. If I go there and there is nothing there that's interesting to me, those are the breaks, that's life, nothing more you can do about it. If following up enough leads like that, eventually one will know of some fairly consistently good places. Or at least find some places worth checking back in occasionally.
Also, as I posted in the other forum, it really diminishes the experience for me if I know the girl I'm meeting is an internet superstar being much discussed in the forum with pictures and detailed description of the performance and everything. One girl who was previously near the top of my list now holds no interest for me at all due to that development.
If an individual girl's identity (name and / or pic along with where to find her) goes up in these forums, it's probable she'll be overexposed in short time. Ruined basically. What happened with this recent one was just to a degree that was unbelievable. She practically has a thread over there dedicated to her alone. One post after another with her name as the big bold headline. Photos in one post after another. Just no discretion at all. Sharing can be fine, but by PM, and to people you know, one to one.