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Originally Posted by TomMAffolter
orig he only knew her as linh big tits, he wasnt aware of her being on dancho...after u sending her profile thats when he started identifying her specifically so in fact you are partly to blame for her popularity
AND IN REGARDS TO SHAREING PLACES U CURRENTLY USE, IM USING THE PLACE I GAVE CLUES FOR U AS A EXAMPLE im pretty sure u have other places eg those cafe shops etc etc...the point is you only share places that u deem low value in terms of high pricing or has a high customer base of foreigners and these places are more often that not been reported on teh net anyway
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Yeah I PM'd with Luke about that, assumed it would stay between us, so felt a bit queasy when I saw him reporting it back out in the thread like that.
The cafes are/were more to kill time with no expectations of results. Just had a ridiculous situation happen at one of them, girl I've liked for years suddenly zaloing me a lot, asking me to come see her. All turned out to be a damn fundraising effort, cuz she wouldn't meet me outside her cafe but did manage to work up the courage to request 1,5. On the other hand, before leaving the country in December I had a nice surprise date with one I met at a cafe, plan was to get breakfast, met her by her tiny house and she had me come back inside, which one thing led to another (she showed me pictures on her galaxy) and suddenly it was all out, the full deal. Huge surprise. She didn't want money too. And then I had to go the next day and that was that. When I came back the vibe was no good and it finished. Oh well. And I'll soon find out what the deal is with that gai goi cafe situation cuz that one zaloed me out of the blue today and wants to meet up. Maybe tomorrow. But of these 3 situations at cafes, by far the norm is that you go there and sit there talking to them and that's it. Sometimes you'll get one (this is how it is for me anyway) that acts extra nice and warm, and usually that will result in money-requests before you even get a chance to go out with her. And that SUCKS, cuz then you are stuck, you have no real relationship with this girl yet, and a big tab she's expecting you to pay if this is gonna go forward, which it may or may not. It's at that moment you realize your time and effort and money meeting this one was a complete waste. I mean you have to do a gut-check and ask yourself seriously if you really do think this is gonna pan out to anything. And I have to say both my recent gut-checks were that it was No. It really feels so shitty sending that one text that says, Sorry, I do like you but I can't do this. Or this last one, Why are you asking me to buy you romantic gifts and asking me for money when you don't want to meet me in real life. Part of the torture is that you can never feel 100% sure they're just playing you, so you have to make your decision while you're in the dark, go by gut feeling. These places btw are in D10 and D5 mostly. I had a complete list of those w addresses that I PM'd to people who asked about them, including all the ones I knew. The one I got the freebie date with was in D7, where the cafes have like just 2 or 3 girls at a time so not worth sharing. Like a small scale version of the DJ cafe but no DJ. Oh, and I recently deleted ALL my PM's in this and the other forum, so the list is gone and I'm too busy to put it together again.