[SingViet]

Don't try to deceive yourself that there's a chance for bx to return the money to you . Their culture is only TAKE, NO RETURN. The next thing is, why will you want her to 'borrow' from you in the first place if she's really your wife? Even when both are working, if either one party doesn't have enough $$$, just give if able to. If very calculative in a marriage, the marriage will not last long.