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Originally Posted by nitecrawllerr
I agree with u most of the FLs or ceweks willingly take up prostitution to make living. All these years of cheonging, i have only booked and met 3 cases whereby the ceweks told me they were forced into prostitution, and against their own free will. Two of them i did not see them hanging around the joint anymore. But the 3rd one came back to balai after a year "disappearance".
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I have a similar experience in Batam. Based on what I heard from them, almost all cewek in joints work there because "invited" by friends who were working there before and found it good. They went to Batam to do that and well aware of everything.
But there are certainly different cases.
One girl in **** told me, less than one year ago, that she went there because her friend invited her to come, saying that it was good to make the money she desperately needed. But she did not explain her that the job was sex.
She did not like that kind of job, but the problem was that someone advanced the money for travel and accommodation. So she was not forced to work: they simply offered her the option to work with other girls as the fastest way to return the money. Of course, she did not know how else to pay it back, if not working with other girls doing that. After 2 weeks of booking, she paid back her debt, but at that point she kept on doing it for a few more weeks, to earn some additional money for her needs at home. So, not really "forced", but certainly the girl had not many other options, once in Nagoya. I stress that the joint always let her the option to leave at any time.
(happy or not, she made me VERY happy that day. I gave her a good tip)
My great friend, who I met for 2-3 years and now is back to kampung, was initially sold by her auntie to a bar in Tanjung Unjang, when she was 18 or even less. Her auntie promised her a work in a restaurant or something. She was really forced to work there, prisoner, no way to escape. After some months, she became pregnant and found the way to escape back to kampung. Her family took the baby and sent her away because of the shame (note: the shame is on the girl, not on the auntie). She went back to Nagoya, and of course she did not find anything better else than working as FL in disco for a few years.
I heard also from another girl, but I had not enough confidence with her to trust her, that she went to Batam years ago to work, but then an auntie sold her to a brothel in another island (where?? I don't remember) for very little money. She managed to escape and come back to Batam, but of course she found nothing better than doing ST in Nagoya.
So, it happens, but I would not really say that this is the norm, as the bullshit claimed in many TV documentary reports.