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Originally Posted by angelhunter702
Well, all bros here are indeed lucky. Some had sex before marriage but not after kids. Some had sex before marriage but reduced significantly after marriage. I envy you all.
I didn't have once before marriage and thought she is waiting for us to have sex after marriage. 10 years of relationship and 2 years after marriage, guess what, I didn't even have sex once with her before but she cheated me once.
I love her and respect her as my life partner. I'm her best friend and so does she as mine. But I guess there is where it stops. I married my best friend. Hahaha~
Well, I had it once awhile outside (I guess I slept with 8 different FL so far), otherwise, it's just visit my favourite massage lady and let her jerk me off.
I did all this discretely and always feel guilty after that. Anyway, I guess this will go on till the rest of my life? Anyway, I'm now working overseas and busy coping with wife and life and never had sex for a loooong time.
So, cheer up bros, I guess I am the worse case by far.
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How come your wife don't wanna have sex with you? It's very strange. What happens when you try to initiate sex? Do you all share the same bed?!
Sex is important in a relationship as I think it brings the couple closer. My partner needs his fix every week or else he gets restless. And I am happy to oblige him too cos i rather he do it with me than with other gals. Haha. I do agree that most women end up being more of a mother than a wife after having kids. They forgot that their role in a family is wife first, then a mom. A happy wife/hubby will try his/her best to please the other party. But seems like many unhappy hubbies here gets constantly rejected by the wife as the wife forgot her responsibility as a spouse includes fulfilling the hb's sexual needs. Men are programmed to need sex and the wife has to program herself to meet that need.
It's quite sad la when the wife keeps rejecting you but hopefully things will improve when the kids are in preschool and more independent.