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Originally Posted by HelloAngel
How come your wife don't wanna have sex with you? It's very strange. What happens when you try to initiate sex? Do you all share the same bed?!
Sex is important in a relationship as I think it brings the couple closer. My partner needs his fix every week or else he gets restless. And I am happy to oblige him too cos i rather he do it with me than with other gals. Haha. I do agree that most women end up being more of a mother than a wife after having kids. They forgot that their role in a family is wife first, then a mom. A happy wife/hubby will try his/her best to please the other party. But seems like many unhappy hubbies here gets constantly rejected by the wife as the wife forgot her responsibility as a spouse includes fulfilling the hb's sexual needs. Men are programmed to need sex and the wife has to program herself to meet that need.
It's quite sad la when the wife keeps rejecting you but hopefully things will improve when the kids are in preschool and more independent.
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My wife claims to have frigidity and I even encouraged her to visit doctor together. We share the same bed, we hugs and we kisses (more like light peck and not French. She finds it dirty). That's all. No more than that. I had been a very understanding and caring husband. I am the only bread-earner now and she is enjoying her life. I had been trying to find out the root-cause like probably due to stress from work, stress from family, financial stress, etc. but to no avail. As I was trying to find out what had caused this to happen, We relocated overseas. She is now a stay-at-home wife with a car to roam around freely meeting up other TAI TAI(s). We have no kids. I believe I had earned enough that she can shop at London from time to time. Sometime I just blamed this to my karma. Anyway, I'm not self-pitied as I had overcome this. Just here to share bit and pieces of my life
