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Originally Posted by HCKing
bro sometimes its easier to say than done. marriage is a complicated matter which involves emotions and families. i believe unless u r in the person's shoes, it is hard to understand what they are going through. couples who have kids will also think twice about getting divorced for the sake of their children. nowadays society is getting more and more stressful and competitive, maintaining a job is oredi not easy, what more to say about marriage and family.
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Firstly u need to realise my posts here is the best. This Transcends all other points.
Secondly u need to shift your pyramid n STOP LISTENING TO fucked up media n garbagement. So unless its a serious case, they'll never advise u to divorce cos it suits their purpose for u to b marrried no matter how miserable u are.
Same as how Josephine wants sporeans to reproduce even if they're broke n no flat.
Just make babies so she can meet her targets n get her bonus n promotion.
In Western countries, couples divorce not because of adultery or no sex but they realise the lifestyle isn't wat they want. U think they don't love their kids? Or they're degenerate Westerners like garbagement claim n sporeans got Confucius or Asian values so they're miserable in marriage.
No. They realise being together is toxic. To themselves n to their children.
It's a fact divorce leads to poorer standard of living n lifestyle. For the kids! But the Westerners still do it. It doesn't mean they don't love their kids .
You only got one life n it's up to u how to live it. Don't use kids as a reason for yr bad decision to stay married
When a wife withholds sex, she does it as a weapon against u or she unilaterally change her prioritys or it's psychological reasons.
If it's the first reason do u think by ignoring her or refusing to kowtow to her, she'll fuck u? Or she'll find other ways to make your life miserable.
And studies show kids are more perceptive than u realize even when young. Do u think by sticking to a loveless marriage they'll later thank you? U think yr subsequent family events will give them lifelong cherished memorys? Or family dinners or holidays where u quarrel are so loved by yr kids
When they're older will u then decide to divorce or still stick together in misery?
And BTW do u know if u fuck a pros yr wife can divorce u n the reason that you're forced to fuck pros cos yr wife deprive u of sex is NOT acceptable.
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Exchange points paradigm Shift ma