IMHO, if images of girls can be displayed similar to the following manner then there may not be any needs of lowering expectations to avoid disappointments.
This is an example of a girl I would not go for in terms of looks, her studio photos looks great ... her real life photos looks ok ... but her video shows that she is fleshy, big bone (not my type).
1. A combination of real life photos with studio pics optional.
2. A video that shows face, body … etc. shots of the same girl as illustrated.
But maybe the above is too much to ask for okts here?
Other Bros pls chip in as well.