[sgjoey]

Sex should not be perceived as mere penetration and ejaculation. Even sex without ejaculation or even penetration can be very satisfying. The best sex actually lasts for days... not continuously... but it is carried over from one session to the next.... and not every session involves ejaculation. Touching, kissing, licking, caressing, stroking and so on, are all sexual acts in themselves and can, by themselves, confer much mutual pleasure.