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Originally Posted by jnudes
Been single for over 10 years. After broken up with ex tried to pursue other gals but failed in the end. Felt tired and hurt of chasing gals and decided to remain single till today.
Get involved with walking exercise regularly at local park. Been doing it full time for 5 years plus and still doing it. One good way to cope with loneliness and my single lifestyle, and found it good for my mental health too.
My other hobbies include cooking, reading and travelling in my free time. When I travel I would use this opportunity to cheong when the budget suits me.
I used to envy married couples and people with partners before. Now I just don't care and decided to stop comparing with them. I am contented with my single life and the 100% freedom and flexibility I can have with it.
And most important is take good care of my own health by regular exercise which I found to be beneficial for my long term health. To summarise I don't think being single is that bad, it all depend on how one lead their daily lives and how one manage their own private life. So far so good for me.  |
Same here. I used to envy whenever I saw families with children running around at the mrt stations. But then I'm not suitable for this kind of lifestyle. I rather look at them from afar and enjoy what I want to do with my own life on my own no doubt sometimes with friends as well.
I still date every now and then. Short dates. No promises of happily ever after. Just be happy for that once or twice meetup. No hard feelings. Happy, stay together longer. Not happy, split.
The only thing I'd rather stay committed to is my work. At least I know I get paid for it.
Work hard, play hard. Enjoy life as it is. Cheers.