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How do I know? I trust my introspection ability into people. Mistakes are possible, but we must work and improve to make them rare.
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Agreed with this and i must say,it also need to go with experience too.
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About helping with luggage, that was my idea to find a reason to invite her to my room without saying "I want to fuck". That does not sound nice on a first date.
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Hmm...good technique,w/o the use of the "key words" to get to your objective during the conversation,hehehe...
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Let us not make this story better than it actually is. She is not ugly, but looking below average, a bit chubby, small tits. I would call "gem" other ladies I met.
And the BJ was more a lesson from me to her. Good student, willing to learn, btw.
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We all have different definition of how a "gem" is like. This one you got,is not what anyone would be able to find. From a personal view,i also like girls who are willing-to-learn,hehehe....tho being obedient were one of my preference. A Gem that is seemingly rare.
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The good point is that she is genuinely willing to have a foreign friend. We could speak using Google Translate and my few words of bahasa, as she knows nearly zero English.
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400k is enough to put her on an English course for a month,hehehe...2 to 4 months later,she's going to be able speak understandable English.
*forget what i just said above,hehehe...
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This simply wanted a new friend.
About money, in Indonesia this has a different perception than in Western world (I cannot judge about other Asian countries).
No girl in Europe would EVER ask money after or before meeting someone, or she would fall into the category of prostitute (social stigma). In Indonesia, it is perfectly common that a lady welcomes a monetary gift from some foreigner, and she does not see that as something diminishing her reputation.
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Hmm...your words reminds me of what my part-time boss told me some years ago. We were driving back from a KTV night club for supper one late evening when we spot 2 singer girls from the same club we patron entering a nearby budget hotel with their drinking 'customers'. My boss tells me, "The value of this 2 singer girl's pussies just slided downward".
Side-note : Me and my part time boss used to frequent those KTV night clubs type of hang flower joints. A place where a group of more well-to-do people literally "throws" money to buy "flower-ring" to hang over a certain favorite singer's neck w/o getting a bonk,hehehe...and where big boss (like my part time boss) would also private-discuss with the singer girls to "sugar-dad" her for an amount between S$6k to S$16k a month.
So what my part time boss was implying was, those singers who already has a "prostitute" badged on her forehead already has not much value in the joint we frequent. (place we go to is also called a hang-flower joint/KTV night club)
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The irony was that my key did not work, and when I came back I found them at the reception where they already got it renewed by staff (I wonder if this is the usual policy for a hotel  ).
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You stayed for a week or so in Batam,the room key you got should work (by putting the card in and pulling it out again a few times more). What is not working right was the door sensor (not the card),hehehe...the 1st time you slide the door key into the door,it may not work becos the sensor on the door may not have detected the key,try again...it should work either on the 2nd or 3rd try.
I believe it is the 'usual policy' for the hotel to exchange the key if a guest holding its "hotel key" (with room number on it) were able to bring it to them (the reception), claiming it doesnt work. It would be especially so if the receptionist already noticed a certain "group of guests" were being seen together going up to their respective same room.
I do understand your concern about safety issue from the part of the hotel when you said that,hence i often picked a room with a surveillance camera eye-ing right at "my" room door-front,hehehe... in one of my very 1st few summaries almost 3 years ago,i also have similar experience. My girl were able to get into my room WITHOUT a room key (after she sneaked out when i left her alone,which i usually does,hehehe...).