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Originally Posted by flashbouncer
Need some advice from all the Vietnam experts here. Some background: I'm decent looking, average build in my early thirties. I'm currently in hcm for 2 weeks for work. Been frequenting a bar for the past 5 nights, every night I will sit with the same girl. This girl claims she started working here 2 months ago, and from my observation she does seem less seasoned compared to the rest of the girls.
The first night, other than the very first Ladies drink I bought her, she didn't ask for anything else. My colleagues were all on their 4th or 5th ladies drink for their ladies so i felt bad and gave her a 300k tip. She looked surprised but accepted. The next few nights when I went back for her, she didn't ask for any ladies drink. The second night she didn't want to accept my tip but I persisted and she accepted. The subsequent nights she was firm in not accepting any money from me. So basically she spent around 4 or 5 hours with me and did not earn a cent. on the other hand, I was receiving some mixed signals from her. I asked her out for movies on Sunday and she accepted but in the end she said she overslept cuz work ended very late on Saturday due to some event. And while she seems happy to see me and does all the little gf-like things like holding my hand while walking around the bar and talking to the other ladies, leaning her head against my shoulder, she also clams up when I ask her more personal questions. Sometimes she gives me her full attention and other times she also seems to be lost in her own thoughts.
usually I'm a fuck and forget type of person so this is the first time I've tried to get something like that going. I'm not too experienced at reading bar girls so I am completely clueless at this point. I'm just wondering if anyone who has had some experience in this area knows if it is worth my time and effort to continue to work on this girl. There are so many pretty girls in dai nam and Vien dong spa or in the other bars so it is much easier to just pay for a quick and commercial release but I'm also getting a little bored with that which is why I'm spending time and effort on this girl. But with the mixed signals I'm not sure if I should continue to do so.
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Stick to pay, fuck and forget...
This gal is not interested in you or anyone else...she should have at least one bf satisfying feeding her...reason why she not able to go for outing or movies...
since you volunteer to pay her tips then she just collect and act as though no hard-up...never believe she jsut working there for 2 months...just need to ask the other gals...since you are there for fun...never ignore the others who working hard to earn a tip...she is no different from any other working gal...