[cockster12345]

specially created an account so that I can seek some advice from the bros here. although i might sound like a loser here. haha.

im in my late 20s and got married recently. i love my wife a lot and so does she. after all, she has spent almost a decade with me. everything is fine and we are in a loving relationship. However, the only thing that bothers me is that we dont make love as often as we used to.

even when we do, she'll be unenthusiastic, and will just lay there. it's ok if i have to do all the work, but it seems like she just does not want it, and i dont wish to to force myself on her. she seems to be uninterested in making love, and will always come up with different excuses (period, tired, etc.). ive gotten quite sian of asking already also.

it has gotten to a point where i've sought FL to fulfill my sexual urges, and im not sure if it's the appropriate thing to do.

bros, what should i do? should i tell my wife about it? or is it ok to continue what i am doing, or even finding a FWB?