Doing the 69
69 can be done male on top, female on top, or side by side. The latter two are easier, though it's more restful with both partners lying down. Some women love being licked on all fours, so if female-on-top 69 drives her wild, take the hint and find ways to eat her in this position. All she has to do is slide her knees out and you'll find your mouth in her pussy. I happen to enjoy male on top, but for women who haven't learned to deep-throat, this is a sure choking position. If your woman wants to deep-throat you while you're eating her, male-on-top is THE 69 position. When her head is tilted back, especially if you're taller than she is, you can really slide your cock all the way down her throat. But don't forget what you're supposed to be doing!
Each of you must realize that you can't let up on what you're supposed to be doing just because what the other is doing feels so good. Instead of letting up, let the pleasure you're feeling enhance what you're doing. It's sort of like a payback, you're making me feel so good I'm going to make you feel even better. Once you've mastered throat fucking, man on top 69 can really get interesting, he can eat you and fuck you at the same time. The only problem comes when he can't make up his mind whether to concentrate on fucking or sucking. Don't worry about it, just lie there and enjoy it, let him sort it out, he'll get around to finishing both jobs.
The element that must be in place for good 69 is simple: Both of you must be experienced! Each of you must realize that when what the other is doing feels so good, you can't just let up on what you're supposed to be doing to enjoy it. Instead of letting up, let the pleasure you're feeling enhance what you're doing, share each other's emotions. That's why, when my lover and I engage in oral sex, we like 69 so much, we can build each other's pleasure to such wonderful simultaneous climaxes.
As I said earlier, some women feel lonely when you're eating their pussy, they want something to hug. Well, you can give them something. Eat her in a side by side 69 position and let her hug your cock, with her mouth. She can put her arms around your hips, press her breasts against you and hold your cock in her mouth while you put her on cloud nine, just make sure you tell her not to distract you too much.
If you have a man who is not in the least interested in giving head and only likes to receive it, then to attempt 69 is to ask for unhappiness in your relationship. You can tell if he really likes to eat your pussy. See if you can find a time when the two of you are in bed naked on your backs and he doesn't have a hard-on. Quietly roll over onto your knees, straddle his head and slowly rub your muff over his face, letting your moist lips slide over his nose and mouth. Look back at his cock. If it springs up toward the ceiling and you find his tongue in your cunt, then he likes it.
UUUUNNNNGGGGGHHHHHH!!!!!! (or, I'M CUMMING!!!)
Okay, she's grabbed your head and pressed your face into her muff; she's practically suffocating you, she's screaming and bucking up in the air; you feel her cunt contracting wildly - how long should you keep it up?? The answer is simple, until she makes you stop. Some women may stop you after five seconds from the start of their climax, others may be able to roll right into another orgasm if you'd just keep going. Do come up for air, but remember, her excitement does not drop off as sharply as yours does.
Play it safe by continuing the stimulation.