Just wish to share with fellow bros about the experience of a vietnamese lady student in Singapore. Its a true story and will allow fellow bros to consider about some things and learn something new.
T**** is a 23 year old Vietnamese lady student in Singapore. She came to Singapore around 3 years ago after completing her High School in HCM City. Her father is a well respected high ranking government officer of HCM City. T**** is the only daughter in the family, with only one elder brother. After 1 year in Singapore, T**** met a Singapore man whom is 10 years her senior. She enjoys his company as she finds him mature and confident. T*** bf is a well educated Singapore man and works in an MNC. He drives a Mercedes benze. For the past 2 years he was with T***, he loved T*** and took good care of her. But T**** faced a big problem. Her parents doesn't allow her to marry foreigners. Her father says that he doesn't want others to say that his daughter marries a foreigner for money. He himself is a successful government officer and also owns a few money spinning business outside. In Vietnam, most vietnamese believe that only daughters of poor family marry foreigners and its mainly for the money. T*** father doesn't want gossip to come his way. T*** parents know about his singaporean bf. They never voice their objections openly infront of the singapore man but they voice it to T*** and warned her about going against their will. Now T*** is in the final year in Singapore. She is worried. She doesn't want to go against her family and she knows she has to return to HCM City eventually. She now tries to enjoy every moment she spends with this man. She knows that she will never marry him, unless she goes against her parents. She has made up her mind that she will not go against her parents. Her relationship with this Singapore man will end when her studies end and return to Vietnam.
Filal piety is an important virtue in vietnamese family, no matter if rich or poor. The chances of going against parent's will is little. My wife once told me before. She will not marry me if her parents doesn't like me. The above true story illustrate the point that even if your gf is a rich vietnamese, it doesn't mean that your love life will be simple. You have to conquer her rich parents, which will be an uphill task for most
