bro, i am alright with any place. you guys decide. I can stay out la, but not after 2330hrs. Not that i am damm afraid of my wifey, but i feel its a form of respect as i know she doesn't like me to frequent night spots.
Let me relate another personal incident of mine. I remember i used to try to be as generous as possible to my in-laws side. When they ask for handphone, i will try to buy them. But i remember once, my sister-in-law wanted a new hp but i was quite tight that month. So i want to delay. She grumbled and grumbled and make it sound as if i owe her that hp. I was mad

and from that day on, i decided to tighten finances to my in-laws side.
Don't act generous to them. If you are generous to them all the while and suddenly you are broke, they will be angry with you. try to tighen allowances to them from now on. if have extra, give them a bit can. If your spouse love you by the amount of money you give to her family, then you can forget about this lady. She loves your money, not you.