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Originally Posted by chanellno5
Your case directly opposite mine. Husband low drive while I'm the one with high drive
I ever 'prostitute' myself to him and got rejected wtf
Never had rejections issues with my FBs
All of them thrown themselves at me. Not say I'm a goddess or what but I do get compliments all the time for being well maintained.
Next time before get married must go through sexual compatibility test. Haha 😂
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Originally Posted by chanellno5
I would very much like to have a blissful sex life with my own husband. But unfortunately the balls is not in my court (pun intended).
I know of some women who became aunty and fat after marriage but they still have husbands who dote on them as seen on social media. 2 of my ex classmates who were school belles now so fat yet often I see them posting happy family pics.
I often wonder if their husbands secretly eat out or really still love them or otherwise.
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hi sis,
it is quite uncommon for the wife to gripe about low sex frequency with her husband, it is usually the husband who kpkb about how little sex is, the standard answers being too tired, no mood etc. and especially after the kids are born, the husband is marginalised because the wife's focus is all on child rearing
have u talked to your hub regarding his low drive? is he experiencing major stress? high workload? money issues? illness? some biological issue? communication is important because constant stonewalling over time can drive the spouse away
maybe can go on a weekend trip to have 二人世界 time, or have date nights where both can focus on each other rather than letting life/family/kids take center stage