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Originally Posted by Bump88
Pls lah, u want to represent stinkie cheapo Sg, by all means. Don’t dictate what others should do. Ppl choose to be a gentlemen and treat ML as a human being is their business. A little treat or tip for well deserving ML doesn’t hurts. There are many ML who would appreciate if the food/desserts comes in handy when they are busy with no time to order or cook. It’s precisely this kind of good customers that makes good MLs coming/returning to Sg. Carrot? I see as win win. But u can continue to be who you are
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Yes. After all we are all human, MLs too. But many bros do treat them as garbage. Personally, I do not think everyone is born wanting to be a ML. They are here for money? Yes of course. But aren't we all working for money too? In all human to human relations, it is always transactional, even in family members too, but there is nothing wrong in giving a little kindness, you get reciprocated, good, if not, move on. Still good karma.
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Originally Posted by Blu3
The rules of the game are as simple as before. Treat them better, they treat you slightly better. This doesn't change 10 years, 20 or 50 years later (until they start with robots). Human is human.
They may work harder for the buck but if treat them like shit, don't expect to be treated like a king regardless whether you are Andy Lau or not.
Yes, they don't come here to find true love. Play the game well. Doesn't harm with a little deserved kindness. The word is deserved.
My opinion. Think you are smarter, different thoughts, your choice.
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Agree. I have always gotten better treatment from simply treating them as humans. Once in a while buy them food, or bring them something they requested, like a pail, or a cup, nothing expensive or fancy. It is these small little things in times of need that they appreciate your sincerity. And I think when they treat you more of a friend then pure customer, the session is definitely more enjoyable.
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Originally Posted by Stenzer
Not all ML are money grabbing, not all customers are decent people also. MLs are here to work, just like everyone else. Those that need/appreciate the food/gesture - why not buy for them? For those $$ face one, no need to go back so no chance to buy food also.
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We speak so badly about the chinese men treating them like dirt, but actually I think we have a large pool here that actually wants to mimic the chinese dirt
All I hear here is I need to get my money's worth and the MLs must give it to me. Yes, we all want our money's worth, but what did you invest to get back the returns? You give peanuts, you get peanuts. But human relations is relative, give expensive bag may not get you anything. I remember the Big Boobs Summer once showed me an expensive bag a customer gave her which she was trying to reject, but the guy just left it there. She didn't know what to do with it. But all I did was buy some food and get very good vibes from her.
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Originally Posted by georgemagnum
I tend to agree with your opinions, bro.
Not all MLs are money grabbing. Some are really nice ladies. As one of the bros put it aptly, they are human afterall.
Not all bros are saints. Some are stingy like fark and expect to get more than what they paid. Go fly kite or get farked.
I don’t give tips, as a matter of fact.
There are other ways to thank those deserving MLs. Not necessarily always in the form of money.
To each their own.
Bottom line from my humble experience, treat them well and high chance, they will treat you well. If not, walk away. There are so many of them out there, can you try them all?  |
Yes. But i do tip for super good service. It is personal. I also tip the waiters or chambermaid if they provide really good service as well. Dependent on whether you are coming back, that is the key. Same for ML. If I am sure no chemistry even if the service is superb, I usually will not tip. Like the waiter, they usually remember and sometimes I jump long queue to get into the restaurant, all because I treat them well. So likewise, treat them peanuts, they will give you what is available in the menu, nothing more nothing less. Treat them well, they let me jump queue, offer discounts, and so on. Nothing to lose.