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Originally Posted by chanyboy
Bro KT, fact is the person needs money but none from your side yet. That's the peculiar part everyone finds. Most of us <except one bro we know > has or is investing a fair bit - big or small. Like SViet shared, it's after a long period of 'education' would the mindset change. For a starter (like me), to build a relationship requires some moderate expenses (regardless where the gf comes from), until it matures into a partnership/confirmed-case (e.g. gotten married) then changes would start to take place. One has more reason to tell the other party to conserve/preserve $ for our own family, etc., etc.
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I agree on that... any relationship also require a fair bit of investment.
Even when we hook up a sillypore gal, we also bring them flowers, gift, dine in fine resturants... After marriage, all this will be cut down.. all $ goes into household liao.. than the wife will complain.. "u are not as romatic as last time". So we need to educate wife..
Gals are emotional... guys are practical.
I will take all my sms, oversea call, flight to hcm as investment... if this work out, it will be great.
For every gal that i know, i tell them i am poor.... u can love me as a person and not my money.. as i have no money for u to love.