I do agree that there are WL that are actually good. But to be really true, i should say that most people are born good, but it was due to environmental reasons that they become bad. Some bros that i know put up a very simple reasoning, if these WL are good, then why do they want to become WL? Why are there lots of poor vietnamese gals in Vietnam that choose to work in proper jobs and refused to become WL? These bros are correct to a certain extend. But often, the families of the WL put so much pressure on them to bring money back that they have to resort to such means. This is coupled with the fact that they are hardly educated, so becoming WL is the only option to earn more money. My wife's cousin (Sha Gua knows her well
) refused to choose the path to become WL although she is faced with financial problems all the time.
They are also some WL that are tired of all the family burden and the life of a WL that they want to quit when they find a good man to marry. These ladies actually have seen thru man's nature and will treat their man really well when they choose to settle with the chosen man.
So in fact, not all WL are bad although majority of them are quite schemming. it will have to depend on your fate