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Originally Posted by surfer888
Never? with locals? Wow!
Didn't mean to rain on your parade.
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Mind you its not like I have problem with the locals. Just that I wasnt looking for one than and now.
If the question was regarding bedding any locals than the answer is affirmative but nothing in regards to a lasting one before I hit Japan during my tertiary days. I am with the same sweetie till these day. Never crossed my mind to look for another.
Okay now the question. How bad can the locals really be? I mean I chat with my colleagues, business associates and friends most are locals and they seem a nice bunch. Not like the demon incarnate that is being portrait by some of members in these fraternity.
Last night I have looked back at my near 6 years as a professional member of society. Doing my duty as a citizen. During those times I have worked from the bottom up in my dad's creative line as a PA as well as my mom's companies. Until I managed to squeeze a seat out of one of the darling of american based company herein. What I know is that I seem able to click with men and women of diverse age. I am not denying my pedigree could be the reasons back than but definately not now. I doubt the info gotten off from their chest has anything to do with my blood link.
As a listener I may be quiet but once you start chatting with me chances are we are going to have a blast. From my observation in my mind's eye I have notice asians guys in general are pretty self-centered. Please read these with an open mind and see if my observation hit the mark.
Ever notice when having a conversation guys seems to think they are the encyclopedia or worst an oracle? For example a girl will chat about something it is usually hi-jacked by the guys and suddenly the subject is changed without letting the girl finish the 1st. If the guy is a horny prick chances are he will suddenly talk about something that is laced with innuendos that could be interpreted as sexual. Not wrong mind you but increasing the description is just a turn off even tho they may look interested but please dont flatter yourself. Most times if there is two guys on the same table chances are the two will go on one topic while the girls have their girly talk. One table two conversations... I think I will stop here on the dick factor and move forward a lil.
Anybody know why we chat with a girl? Why we go out for a drink? If the answer is to get lucky and hopefully get a bonk than you're not wrong. But the main purposed is to showcase who you are as well as highlight what you're made of at the same time learn to understand who the hell she is. Take it like a peacock showing off his feathers. Take it as a high profile head huntered interview session. The objective is sell yourself based on her wants and likes (that is if you are smitten by her) or see if she is your type. That can only happen if you ask questions and let her finish the answer. Than tell her how wonderful it is. Try to picture yourself in that frame and express yourself. Anyways, the whole point is to make her feel comfortable with you.
If that continue thru marriage. Chances are you will understand who she is thus making life interesting and meaningful.
Anyways, for my argument in regards to creed, religion and nationality. I want to say that all girls wants to be heard. All ladies wants to be respected. All women wants to feel loved and be loved. So, on the onset we adhere to those than I dont see why my logic doesnt apply to locals as well.
My few cents worth.