[Jazzyblues]

If it was me, i would just make a daring go for my BF/GF already before the temptation got out of control. Better this way and the consequences before this alternate way which would probably end up in alot guilt and possibly broken relationship later on.

I guess i was lucky enough to be able to control barely in my relationship with my 1st GF. She wanted and so did i badly, but i did not want to do it because i knew we were incompatible in characteristics and she had to return to her home country one day soon. Did not want her to regret giving her 1st time to me. Had to play myself occassionally to control myself but on hindsight, thinking i was pretty dumb. Doubt many guys are as dumb as i am.

Wondered how TS's BF could control.... unless he's a monk