Re: Singaporean Girls / Wives - Not enough sex drive?
Women all over the world are the same sexually. Same as men - ang moh or local. However, these are the problems why sg women may seem to have 'low' sex drive to a man.
1. Equality.
Our Sg women enjoys the freedom of equality unparallel to her asian cousins. Equality to a man means that if you can punch me, so too do i have a right to punch you, irregardless of race, religion or social status.
However, equality to a sg woman means she has a right to punch you, but you have no right to punch her for she is still a 'weaker sex'
My point being:- the sg woman has the right to choose whether to have sex with you or not, when the mood suits her, and you cannot complain either way. That's 'equality' to the educated sg female species. Fairness is never in the dictionary of the powerful sg women's NGO.(non-government organistations). Thus the sg male feels 'short-changed'.
2.Stress.
Our sg society has a higher level of stress compared to our asian cousins. The cost of living is tremendous, beginning as young as a 1 day old kid. More than 80% of adult married couples have to work to support a family and a western lifestyle, espoused as modernity. As such, they have little time to 'smell the roses' - work, sleep, work, and little romance to spark up a great sexual interest.
Being of equal status, the sg women can claim they are tired and would rather sleep when you need it. However when she needs it, and you are tired, you get hell from her and suspicions of infidelity. It's her valuable right in our women protected society.
Stresses can also cause friction, and when that happens, the mood for love is gone, let alone sex.
3. Over-familiarity.
Sg women are sexually the same as any other country's female. Some need it, some dont. All men are the same as well. At times, playing with the same partner will breed over familiarity. Other more open and free societies have the time for play to spice up the bed routines, prevent similar styles all the time, but sg citizens dont have this freedom of time. Work sleep work - open the legs, shaft it, a few thrusts and roll over sleep.
These are the problems. The only solution i can think of is:-
a. Spend one romantic evening with your spouse/gf and communicate your deepest desires respectfully and tactfully. Forget about tomorrow, just live for that night and you will be able to understand each other's sexuality more, and never forget it nor let her forget it too. Then your nights will be more bearable and last till old age.
b.Sex with your wife is not the same as sex with a WL. It's not a push turn and rollover affair, but a long sensual journey, starting as early as a kiss in the morning, a call in the afternoon to ask about her well-being, a shared roled in the home, followed by lots of mischevious foreplay before culminating to a great sex affair on the bed, taking turns to pleasure each other.
c. Should things not work out as plan, then understand that besides being a woman, she is a human being after all. Love is more than sex. Do not hurt her. What she doesnt know, will not harm her. She too will probably do the same. Divorce should be invoked only when love is gone, not when sex is non-existant.
However, do understand this fact. Sex to men is something which we can 'fuck and forget'. But for women, it's 'fuck and won't forget'. When men fuck a woman, we can easily forget her after we cum, but the pyschological make-up of a woman is such that when she fucks with another man (other than her hubby) she is giving more than herself - her love and all, and won't forget. Women are emotional creatures. Thus be prepared that her love for her hubby has ended. Staying on only for other purpose than love. Nothing to do with being cuckold. Foolish of the husband to hang on for it's because of love that both got married.
Why sg women prefer Ang Moh?
The grass always seem greener on the other side, when actually, it's the same everywhere. That's why our asian neighbour brothers also ask something similiar - 'why our local women prefer sg man?'
-Just my 2 cts thought. No one needs to agree to it. Cheers.
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